You do make some good points on the funeral bombing but I'd still do it. I think the saying goes "all's fair in love and war", right? I'd rather win first and then worry about the fallout. I see it like a streetfight. I never waited to see what rules the other guy was going to play by. I just assumed the worst and went into annihilation mode.
It's all good though. It's not like either of us will be making war decisions anytime soon anyway. [:D]

